Sorry Diz, you had replied whilst I was typing. A betta is DEFINITELY worth getting. I know some people don't like them and all their finery, but they do have such lovely characters. For what it's worth, I think you should wait, 'cos when you find the betta for you, you will know
Rafe chose me more than the other way around. He was curious and friendly and followed my finger well when I stroked the tank he was in...well, not really a tank, you know how they keep bettas in the LFS's
Rafe wasn't supposed to be in my main tank, but his own suddenly sprang a leak, and I put him in an isolation pod that hung inside the main tank, as a stop gap until I could sort something out. Imagine my horror, when I was sitting just looking at the tank, wondering what didn't look right with that picture, to realise that Rafe had actually jumped out of the pod and was swimming around with all the others! He was like a naughty teenager who had climbed out of their window to meet their mates
My heart froze as I envisaged carnage and bloodshed all around, especially as he was now in with my Dwarf Gourami. Anyway, as you can see from my pics they struck up a brilliant friendship, and used to hang out together all the time, and I didn't once witness a 'fins-at -dawn' moment between them. He was a real gentleman...I do miss him