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The lower one is definitely a natural coloured female.

However, the top one doesn't look like a natural coloured male. It's colouring looks like a red honey gourami, aka red robin gourami, though from the angle it's hard to see it's fins clearly enough to decide the gender. If you could manage it, a square on shot of the rear half of the body would help.
Red gouramis are not scarlet, they vary between orangey brown when newly arrived to orangey red once they've settled. Your fish doesn't show any sign of the yellow dorsal fin you get in natural coloured males.

There was a dispute some years ago about the origins of red robin gouramis. Some said they were just selectively bred honeys, others said they were honey-dwarf hybrids. Whichever they are, reds grow bigger than naturals and yellows.


As for behaviour, I always found that female honeys spent most of their time pretending other fish didn't exist and just pottering round the tank usually scouring the bottom for morsels of uneaten food. Males were always more active, darting about the tank and sometimes building bubble nests and trying to entice a female, which usually ignored him.

It does take honey gouramis a while to settle. You need to wait a few weeks yet before yours settle in and their behaviour becomes normal for the species.

Hmm, I'm not sure. I've never kept the red form and its dorsal fin looks longer than honey males usually do.

But I have found something on Seriously Fish that might explain things. There are 10 photos of honey gourami on SF and the 5th one bears the text

The red colour form has been selectively bred for the ornamental trade, possibly via hybridisation with the congener T. labiosa

Trichogaster labiosa is the thick lipped gourami which also has a red-orange colour form.

If red honeys are this hybrid, it would explain the mouth of your fish. It would also explain why the red honey gourami is bigger than the other colours as T. labiosa is a bigger fish than T. chuna. It might even possibly be a red thick lipped gourami. Even if it is, SF advises that it can be kept with other peaceful anabatids so there shouldn't be a problem with the female.

He's a very handsome little fella. 

If the red one does turn out to be a male honey gourami, you can expect to see courtship behaviour even if they don't actually spawn. It is very easy to apply human behaviour to this. The courtship stages are:
Male displays to female by swimming vertically in front of her. She ignores him and turns away. "I know what you're after, go away"
Male persists and she eventually follows him a short distance "OK, what do you want to show me.... hang on, that's a bubble nest, I'm not that sort of girl, I'm off"
Eventually the female follows him right to the nest then swims off. "That is a rather nice bubble nest, but I'm not falling for this you know"
Finally they spawn under the bubble nest "I'm convinced, you are a gorgeous male and that really is a nice bubble nest"

Males will chase females to 'get them in the mood' (apparently it stimulates egg production) and when she starts to follow then turns away. But in all the years I had honey gouramis, the worst that happened was the female getting a few chunks missing from the edge of her tail, which soon regrew.

Your tank is looking lovely and the descriptions of behaviour from yourself and Sue have made me chuckle. 

Thanks Donna and fcmf.

Yes, Sue's description of the fish mating was really funny. Who said "romance is dead"?

Hard to believe that only a few weeks ago, I thought that my tank would never cycle.
And now here I am with fish happily swimming around.

I'm spending so much time watching them, that my cat is jealous! She keeps coming up to me, moaning and pawing for my attention.
Before I got the fish, she only wanted to know me at mealtimes.